![]() ![]() This combination of sensationalised sex in culture and the lacklustre national curriculum could help explain why more than a third of women under the age of 40 have experienced unwanted choking, slapping or gagging. A fifth of British 14- to 18-year-olds have watched porn on multiple occasions. ![]() Meanwhile, sex education is failing to even scratch the surface: in one study, nearly half of the students surveyed said they had been taught nothing about sexual pleasure and teenagers told researchers in 2020 that they turn to porn as an educational tool because schools don’t teach them “what to do”. With fetishes and sexual violence playing out on TV and extreme online porn easily accessible, young people are being given a limited view of sexual desires and preferences, skewed by these platforms’ need to shock and entertain. It also leaves certain types of sex under-represented. The sexologist Jenn Gunsaullus told pop culture site Decider in 2018 that these scenes in TV shows should be in service of the characters and storylines: “If there really is no good plotline that’s engaging folks, then, yeah, it’s just going to be like porn.” When a graphic scene is added just to shock or titillate, it lets down the show – and the audience. But it depends what that sex is being used for. There’s nothing inherently wrong with explicit sex on screen – acceptance of a wide range of preferences has been a long time coming. Extreme sex scenes can drum up coverage and viewers in an increasingly crowded market. As the streamers grow, make more original content and jostle for position, they are behind an ever-greater proportion of TV releases. As a cable network, HBO, alongside streaming services, doesn’t have to stick to the same rules on nudity and sexual content as network TV does in the US. ![]() From 2011 until its finale in 2019, HBO’s Game of Thrones churned out rape scenes and plotlines featuring incest and its current prequel series, House of the Dragon, has proved equally barbaric.Įuphoria – which showed porn and statutory rape from its first episode – and The Idol both appeared on HBO, too. I think that sort of game (for some) creates some seriously unclear expectations and is mentally unfair.The past decade has seen a normalisation of kink-driven, extreme and violent sex on TV. I’m referring (in my reblog) mostly to anon’s question with my answer because it reads as though she isn’t enjoying being “forced” to disobey. *Of course, if both Dom and sub are in on the game and both enjoy it, that’s different. And why would anyone want there submissive to experience that sort of mindfuck? (Unless the Dom in question is a sadist and then all bets are off, lol.) Think of how this sort of obedience paradox sets us up for failure no matter what and it becomes clear: we’re damned if we do, damned if we don’t. It’s difficult to unthread the overwhelming desire to obey from the fabric of who we are and setting us up for it (when it’s clear it’s detrimental to the submissive) is cruel*. For many subs, even if it’s during play and beyond our control, if we “disobey” - we feel it within our being and struggle very much with it. This is why having clear communication, explicit expectations, and also why knowing your submissive is so important for a Dominant. I think it’s a problem when people extend this to other things and confuse true behavior-modification punishment with this type of play. It’s about outsmarting you, overpowering you in different ways, and a little humiliation. :) I will then make it impossible for you to obey.whatever I know works for you… wand between your legs… wand between your legs and hand around your throat… or maybe my tongue between your legs and two fingers inside pressing against that certain spot… we both know you stand no chance, but, if I do my job right, you are truly scared… and you are truly sorry when you lose our little game… Now, it’s not true punishment because I’m going to hurt you very, very badly anyway, and we both know it. I mean I might grab your throat, slap your face, look into your eyes and tell you that you need to obey… you need to not cum… and that if you do cum… if you disobey me… I will hurt you very, very badly. This is a good example… tell a girl not to cum, make it impossible for her to obey (and yes, to answer your question, I would exploit whatever weakness I could find lol), and then punish her for not obeying. ![]() I make a bit point out of punishment not being play… everyone asks about my favorite punishments, etc… but there is a place for play punishment. You sent me this ask a few days ago too, and you raise a good point. ![]()
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